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It's only You Jesus, It's only You

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I Need to Talk Day 4 - Duration: 1:55.

- So someone came to you and said, I need to talk.

And at this phase in the conversation,

that person has identified whether they need support

or whether they need guidance.

Now, if they just needed support, then you honor that,

and you let them know,

thank you for coming to share with me,

and I'm here if you need to share further.

But if they need guidance,

I'm sure, in your mind, you've already worked out

exactly what this person needs to do,

or what your suggestions are.

But here's the key, don't tell them,

let them figure it out for themselves.

Ask them leading questions.

What is the goal?

How can we make this better?

Because what you're doing there,

is you're building a leader,

someone who can solve problems for themselves,

and at the same time,

you're building that person's trust in you.

Now, on the flip side, when they need guidance,

they could have completely caught you off-guard.

They shared something where you don't even know

how to respond, you don't know where to begin,

and when this happens, the best thing that you can do,

is to buy yourself some time.

Thank them for coming to talk to you,

to share what they shared.

And then let them know,

you know what, I need a little bit of time to think on this,

so let's schedule a time to get back together

and discuss it further.

Go ahead and pull out your calendar,

and put it on the calendar,

so that the two of you can get back together to discuss.

And keep your promise.

Whatever time it is, whatever day it is

that you decide to schedule, make sure you stick to it,

because this conversation, remember,

was important enough for this person to come to you

and discuss face to face.

For more infomation >> I Need to Talk Day 4 - Duration: 1:55.

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Missing man's daughter: 'I need to know what happened' - Duration: 2:09.

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I Need to Talk Day 3 - Duration: 1:08.

- We're talkin' about what to do

when someone comes to you and says, I need to talk.

At this point, there's a nice, quiet, safe space

for that person to share with you.

You have been actively listening

and they've reached a stopping point

and you have asked them, may I speak?

Now if they're done, of course they'll say yes

and if they're not, then that's great that you asked

because that way they can continue telling their story,

but they said yes, that they're complete.

So here's the two questions that you want to ask.

You want to ask, do you need my support?

Or do you need my guidance?

Because those two things are very different.

If they just need your support,

then what they're saying is,

they just need you to be a sounding board

for what they needed to share.

They just wanted to be heard

and if they say they need your guidance,

then that's when it's time for you to kinda step in

and help them solve the problem,

help them figure out what to do next.

So it's always important to figure out support or guidance.