hey what's up guys today is gonna be a little bit of too personal on this topic
I'm getting these questions from you guys
not only in my YouTube channel but pretty much whenever we meet anyone they're
asking me how many wives that I have? I understand where the question coming
from especially those of you who are watching us from any of the Muslim
countries to be honest I was kinda ignoring this question for so long
maybe people wouldn't understand and they might take it to a negative way, I think
it's time to disclose this information because since I started to to have the
YouTube channel I understand that there's a lot of things that people need
to know about me I have a lot of people watching me from Philippines Kuwait
Saudi Arabia Emirates even U.S. surprisingly only few in Egypt, answering
the question how many wives do I have before I get too personal on this topic
and to explain some things first one of the things that I learned from my
journey with YouTube and social media something that that was actually really
amazing if any Filipino from the planet got hurt by someone you will see a 100
million Filipinos are against that person (who hurts their kabayan), whenever see a problem for a Filipino for OFW
You see like the entire country are talking about it and this is something
really amazing which reminds me with the Egyptians if
any of the Egyptians got hurt in Gulf countries like Kuwait or Qatar or Saudi
Arabia you'll see whole social media is talking about it that is really
something so I understand if I'm gonna hurt my Filipino wife like 100 million
he knows they're not gonna just let it go understanding the idea behind Muslims
are allowed in some cases okay some cases to marry more than one um and a
lot of Catholic audience I have watching me right now let's not take this topic
from a religious perspective I want to hear your opinion as a human beings as
women not men because you'll be surprised that it's all about women
never was about men for example we are in 2018 now if you look to the
populations of U.S for example you will see that there is seven million female
more than males meaning if all the males in U.S will get
marry all the men all of them you have seven million women are not
going to find husbands and if you are a woman who is watching me right now and
who love married life I'm gonna ask you this what would you do if marriage is
not an option for you meaning if all men are going to get married and you will
left out from the seven million women who cannot have husbands there is no
more husbands anymore what would you do that's why I was asking let's see the
things from a human perspective before we get to the religious perspective
adding to this there is 4.5% of the male populations in U.S are gays
so on the top of the six million (correction 7* Mil.) women were not going to have husbands another
14 million women will be left out with no husbands
even in a perfect world you will see that not all men actually want to get
married even if they are straight a lot of men that I don't want to get married
because of too much responsibilities I don't want to have kids I'm not ready
yet and they always not ready this is a
scary percentage of women that cannot find husbands now what are the options
that women have , you have two options here I'm not making this up the numbers are there
you can check online there's two options there's no third option for women here, it's either you will
get married with a married man or women will
be a public properties I know it hurts I know it's heavy the numbers never lies
in these things this Islam is offering a solution for
women it never was a privilege for men men are always abusing everything
beautiful especially those who have a lot of money and I know a lot of people
in Gulf countries because they have a lot of money and Oh I have a lot of money
I'm gonna get married four wives they think men they think because they have
money they can get marry more than one the truth is if you want to go to the
bottom of that if you look at the Quran and see exactly how this topic was covered
if you fear that you're not going to be fair
if you're not gonna be just, then
marry only one, the verse actually is talking about
the woman who has have orphans the husband passed away and no one is
there to protect them, we're all know that there's two type of women
that always been neglected by society widows and divorcées and that's why the
quran here covering this topic to protect those women who has orphans who
will take care of the kids all take care of the education back in the days when
men go to war to protect their homes and to protect their countries they die and
they leave families behind and usually when a man decide to get married he
wants someone without kids he wants someone that never had a man in her life
before that's why these type of women need protection that's why Islam allowed
men to marry more than one, however and this is very tricky here you have to be
fair as a man physically financially and emotionally even though it's really hard
to control your feelings if you marry more than one maybe you will love one
more than the other then you cannot marry more than one the rules and
regulations is very strict not any man can just marry more than one again the
idea behind this it's a solution for the society not every Woman will accept that
this is why the wife has the right to right in the marriage contract I'm not
allowing my husband to marry more than one it is her right to mention this in
the contract of marriage in this case then the man cannot marry more than one
we believe in all the Abrahamic religions we believe in Christianity
Judaism and Islam all came from the same source that's why if you look at the
Bible you will see the Bible said marry only one the only religious
book on the planet that said marry only one was the Quran if you open the Bible
you will see that the Bible is allowing marrying more than one for example you
will see in the Bible that King Solomon has 1000 wives there's a lot of places
in the Bible is allowing that but later on the church is the one who said that
we should marry only one not the Bible but the church this is the explanation
for marrying more than one, it's always has been a benefit for women and
not a privilege for men as they're claiming going back to answer your question about
how many wives that I have? I have only
one Filipina beautiful wife because I
don't need anything in the world except her because I love her and she loves me
and that's all we need to get by, thank you so much for watching and I'll see
you soon maybe assalamualaikum and see you
kabayan very soon
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