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now let me give you a little simple

formula for goal-setting okay we take

two two-and-a-half hours on the weekend

for the whole ten-year plan we don't

have time for that tonight but let me

get you started with a little simple

formula mr. shelf gave me and maybe this

will be helpful first of all I've

divided goals into two parts first is

long range long range goals that's your

dreams your dreams for the next 3 5 10

20 30 40 years actually the rest of your

life your dream you've got to keep

dreaming Ronald Reagan president said to

the joint session of Congress a few

weeks ago the Republic is a dream and if

we don't keep dreaming we will lose the

Republic your better future is a dream

for yourself and for your family where

do you want to go what do you want to do

what do you want to be what do you want

to see you've got to dream dream there's

a Bible phrase that says without dreams

and vision people perish you've got to

have something to go for that inspires

the hearts and the soul

dream from the children of Sanchez it

says take the crumbs from starving

soldiers they won't die take the bread

from hungry children they will cry but

without dreams we all will die

you've got the dream

don't lose your dream for yourself for

your futures for your parent Lee the

dreams of love and enterprise travel and

doing things becoming something unique

on your journey here

don't lose your dream do some dreaming

that's a long-range goal you've got to

have those

well that's number one here's the second

part of gold'

short-range short-range goal that's your

goals for tomorrow this week this month

this year the immediate future

we call these confidence builders

because we set up something short-range

go for it yet it lacks latch onto it

work hard accomplish it

that starts building your strong

feelings to go for your dream

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now I divided goals into three

categories here they are number one is

economic that's your goal for money

income business profits production

economic make sure you've got your

economic dwell plan economic plays a

major role in everybody's life economics

is major which means it ought to be

meticulously well planned for tomorrow

this week this month this year long

range what if you ask somebody tomorrow

if you can see their meticulously well

planned list of economic know what were

they probably say it's say you some kind

of a nut you must be weird hey I found

out what success is success is doing

what the failures won't do make sure

you've got your economics well planned

it'll put you in the top 5% one of the

key little subjects we talk about on the

weekend is the seven fundamentals for

wealth and happiness and that's one of

them well-planned economics it's a

fundamental if you want to do well join

the top 5% anybody in this room can join

the top 5% if you will okay now here's

the second category of gold things make

a list of the things you want and on my

list of things now I put everything

little things as well as major things it

doesn't matter how small it is it goes

on my list I used to just put major

things cars home I don't do that anymore

I now load my list of everything

everything

and the reason is part of the fun of

having a list is checking it off that

says boy at the end of the day if you

can go got it got it got it got it got

it got it whatever it is right you get

into the habit so load up your list the

things you want now when you check off

something major celebrate that's an

important point to make celebrate your

achievements live it up have a part when

you reach something you've worked for

for a while see we all grow from two

experiences one is called the pain of

losing the other one is called the joy

of winning we need both of them amplify

them as much as you can which also means

make losing painful if you set up

something fools around didn't get it put

it on your cell on the other side if you

did get it

congratulate yourself self

congratulations is a sign of maturity

seeking congratulation is a sign of

immaturity

but hey winning and losing see that's

what it's all about that's the name of

the game now some people leave such

mediocre lives at the end of the day

they don't know whether they're winning

or losing they got no clue guys just

going through the day with his fingers

grow

there's a better way okay here's the

third category of goals personal

development with those goals together

personal development goals that's your

goal is to be stronger more decisive via

speaker be a leader learn a language all

kinds of skill the whole weekend seminar

was designed to improve all your skills

so that you walk away more skillful and

that's what you want the personal

development skill that's what a track

that's what brings good things to your

life the person you've become more

skillful now this is quite a package to

work on economic things personal

development for tomorrow this week this

one's this year-long ring okay that'll

get you started now here's the simple

formula for setting goal it goes like

this a work on your goal

that's step one work on them and I put

the word work there deliberately setting

goals just plain hard work I don't want

to kid you where he haven't come here

tonight the kid each other it's work I

know it's work that's why a lot of

people just let it slide it's work many

people work hard on their job but they

don't work hard on their future they

just let that fly and the work involved

is making plans I know most people don't

I understand that but don't let that be

you guy says well yeah you work where I

work but the time you struggle home is

play you copy to bite of supper watch a

little TV get to bed you can't sit up

half the night plan plan plan and the

guys good worker

hard workers in here but you've got to

be better than sincere working hard

you've got to be better than a good

worker you got to be a good planner

somebody once wisely said the people who

fail to plan are planning to say well

sit so work on your goals here step 2

write your goals down that's so

important I teach my staff around the

world

put your goals in your journal

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because one of the major people you want

to study is yourself so here's a list of

goals I'd put together three weeks ago

here's the list of goals I've put

together two years ago here are some of

the changes I made rearrange me of my

priority I scratched these off I put

these on I've gotten these study your

accomplishments study what your desires

are put them on paper write them down

here's another reason for writing your

goals there it shows you're serious

about doing better and to do better you

got to get serious you don't have to be

grim but you must be serious everybody

hopes things will get better everybody

holds poor people hope that ought to

tell you something it means the future

does not get better by hope it gets

entered by plan I used to have the

affliction called passive hope it's an

affliction it's bad

probably what's even worse than that is

happy hope now that is really bad that's

bad

happy hope the guy 50 and he's broke and

he still smile he's s not good

so get serious about your goals put them

on paper write him down there's all

kinds his goals her gold their gold

business goals financial goals financial

independence gold family goals I mean

there's so many things to work on on it

but if you don't get busy and work on a

cheering up the time will bat and here

are not five years from now you'll wind

up where you don't want to be where and

what you don't want the we're driving

what you don't want to drive being what

you don't want to be now is the time to

fix it now here's the third step to your

goals check the size of your goal and

the kinds of gold how big they are

what kind they are affects you and

here's one of the important phrases of

the evening your goals are affecting you

whatever they are your goals affect your

handshake your goal to fit your attitude

personality your goals affect the way

you want the way you talk the way you

dress all day long we're being affected

by our goals now some people have goals

but they have such lousy gold the effect

is there I asked a guy one time what are

your goals for this month

the guy said look if I could just scrape

up enough money to pay these lousy bills

that was your goal I'm not saying it

isn't a goal it's a goal but it's meant

to allow the goal the effective bit

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you don't jump out of bed on Monday

morning and say old boy another chance

to go out and scrape up the money to pay

my lousy bill so you don't do that

usually you say oh not another Monday

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and some people have so given up on life

they have joined the thank God it's

Friday plus how sad surely those are the

same people when life is over to them

we'll say thank God

oh but I think that's good advice don't

be a follower be a student right take

advice but not orders take information

but don't let somebody you know order

your life make sure what you do is the

product of your own conclusion

excellence nope

make sure what you do is the product of

your own conclusion not to do what

someone else said take what someone else

says processes think about it ponder it

it makes you wonder it makes you think

and it's valuable then when you go take

action make sure that the action not

what somebody told you to do make sure

the action is the product of your own

conclude you'll follow just little bit

of those simple guidelines telling you

the learning process can be speedy swift

powerful your learning curve can go up

and then applying it to your business

your life your family conversations

equities of all kinds you'll find some

progress like I did that first five

years when I met a teacher willing to

share with me turn my life around

progress I couldn't believe happened for

me okay

let's get started I want to review I was

here last time we talked about the five

major pieces to the life puzzle and I

just want to review those because it

lays such a good foundation for all the

risk that I want to share with you today

we got a lot of subjects to cover so

we're going to go rather swiftly okay

put on your mental track shoes here and

run with me today because I'm going to

deal mostly in concepts expect you to

you know fill in a lot of the details

because I got a lot to share I want to

get through it all

but let's lay this foundation again of

the five major piece happens to be the

title of my latest book but I think it

is so valuable in laying a foundation

it's some of the things I learned

between ages 25 and third the teacher

who taught me taught me so well he dealt

in these fundamentals we call these

fundamentals we call these safety basics

for sport fundamentals for sports

fundamentals for your business

fundamentals for the way you deal with

your family few simple things a few

basic things that if you practice every

day can make all the difference in the

world how it works out I've loaded it

down to five major pieces to the life

puzzle let's just review them number one

it's philosophy philosophy philosophy as

I taught the last time I was here

philosophy and my personal opinion is

the major determining factor in how your

life works that philosophy the major

determining factor in how your life

works out philosophy to form our

philosophy you got to think you've got

to use your mind got a process ideas and

this whole process over a lifetime

starting way back here when we were

children schools that we've attended our

parents our experiences all this stuff

that we've processed by the thinking

process helps to develop our philosophy

and in my opinion each person's personal

philosophy is the major factor in how

your life works out here's what I called

it in that last presentation when I was

here it's called the set of the sail

each person's personal philosophy is

like the set of the sail now I used to

think of a circumstances that ordered my

life

if someone would have asked me at age 25

mr. Owen how come you're not doing well

pennies in your pocket creditors calling

nothing in the bank behind on your

promises to your family you live in

America

25 years old got a beautiful family

every reason to do well and things are

not going that well for you what is

wrong here it would not have occurred to

me to blame my philosophy I mean it

would not have occurred to me then when

I got this lousy philosophy and that's

how come I got pennies in my pocket and

nothing in the bank things aren't

working well that would not have

occurred to me I found it much easier to

blame the government much easier to

blame the tax Club I used to say taxes

or to ah top tax rate when I first

started paying back ninety-one percent

back then when your income reached a

certain level all your income over that

ninety-one percent

so I used to say that's dude all right

now it's attack top tax rates about 33

percent but people are still saying what

taxes are to see if you can't use that

anymore if it's gone from 91 to 33 how

could it be too high

come on I threw all that old icky stuff

away some people found it though there's

businesses

my old lip I used to blame the traffic

whether you blame circumstances all

right people

Paul I'm too short too old I was raised

in the security raised on a farm parents

and mothers means all this stop if you

would ask me how come you find yourself

here with drone age 25 living in America

land of abundance and opportunity

pennies zero in the bank not doing well

creditors calling it would not have

occurred to me to blame my philosophy I

found it easier to blame the company

company policy

I used to say if this is all they pay

how do they expect you to do with so I

figured that you know my future was

going to be tied to what everybody else

was arranging the economy and right

interest rates

I used to say things cost too but that

was my whole explanation not my

philosophy until my teacher taught me

better that this is where the problem

was my own personal philosophy here's

what's exciting about each person's

personal philosophy that's what makes us

different than dogs and animals birds

and cats and spiders and alligators

that's what makes us different than all

of the life form the ability to think

the ability to use your mind the ability

to process ideas and not just operate by

instinct in the winter I'm telling you

the goose can only fly south

what about doesn't look too good tough

luck it can only fly cell but the human

beings are not like the goose and only

fly south I mean you could turn around

go north you can go e you can go where

you can order the entire process of your

own life and we do that by the way we

think we do that by exercising their

mind we do that by processing ideas and

come up with a better philosophy a

better strategy for our lives goals for

the future okay plans to achieve those

goals all this comes from developing our

philosophy philosophy helps us to

process what's available well when we

get here we got seed and we got the soil

and we got some rain and we've got

somewhat sunshine and we've got some

seasons and what the miracle of life now

the key is what do you do with all this

stuff

how do you turn all this stuff that's

available here into equity and promise

and lifestyle and dreams and future

possibilities all of this that's

possible now with you Nadine how do you

take all this stuff and turn it into

this equity value you don't need bitter

seed and soil in fact when it comes to

seed and soil and rain and sunshine and

seasons in the miracle of life that's

all you got now what if you blame this

stuff then you're blaming all you got if

you blame the economy and you're playing

the schools and you blame the teachers

and you blame the sermons and the

preachers and you blame you know the

marketplace you blame the company and

company policy what else is there when

some people get through it they're

blameless there is nothing else that's

all there is and if you blame the only

thing you've got to work with I'm

telling you it's called

mistake colossal

in not understanding that that's all

you've got to work with and if this is

all you've got to work with then you

don't change the seed and you don't

change the soil and you don't change the

rain and you don't change the sunshine

you don't change the seasons right guy

says I'll take three Springs four

summers nine Falls no winters no you

can't fool with this stuff you got to

take it like it come then what do you

change to make your life work well you

got to start with your philosophy guess

what I had to do at age 25 in order to

change my own future I had to change my

mind I had to change my thinking I had

to change my philosophy I was messed up

on what was causing my problem and once

I got that straightened out that all the

stuff I blame the government and taxes

the marketplace the economy and things

got too much negative relative cynical

neighbors once I got rid of that and

started going for where the real problem

was which was me I'm telling you my life

exploded into change my bank account

changed immediately my income changed

immediately my whole life took on a

whole new look in color immediately and

the early results I got from making

these philosophical changes tasted so

good I've never stopped the process from

that days of it I'm killing you with a

little consideration of the refinement

of your sale by setting a better sale

refining your philosophy your whole life

into art you came from today on you

don't have to wait till tomorrow you

don't have to wait on next month you

don't have to wait till spring don't

have to wait till 93 and start this

whole process immediately I recommend it

some people do so little thinking they

don't even have their sail up I mean you

can imagine where they're going to wind

up at the end of this week at the end of

this month at the end of this year now

is the chance to change process all this

information

number one is velocity okay and we dealt

with all that where we get ideas from

personal experience from other people's

experiences I don't wanna get into all

those details because we covered that

the last time I was here but philosophy

that's number one my first looking each

person's personal philosophy here's the

definition of success and failure just

make this note the eros failure a few

errors in judgment repeated

every day now you can automatically

assume that drone I say I can admit that

a few errors in judgment repeated every

day for six years and with my father I

think I told a story the last time I was

here my father 88 years old he's never

been ill y'all haven't retired not long

ago midnight we're getting ready to go

to bed able to do well that's water more

acres gone he's all excited at midnight

we can ready to go to bed my father's

eating what he called his midnight snack

little bite eat before you go to bed

don't have to go to bed hungry and I'm

watching him eat this midnight snack

guess what he had an apple you graham

crackers and a glass of grapefruit juice

I said no wonder my father's so healthy

my mom taught us all those good health

practice taught me when I'm growing up

I'm an only child I've never been here

that's the big 5o some time ago my two

daughters 3233 never been in my

grandkids never been in telling you the

legacy lingers on as I watch my father

have this midnight snack suddenly

occurred to me know that part an apple

what a day that's gotten to dallas-fort

worth right an apple an apple a day

keeps the doctor away good question for

this intelligent on what if that's true

you table mr. Owen if that's true that

would be easy to do then what's the

problem it's easy not to do it's easy

not to adopt it as your own personal

philosophy or the guy messed up to say

guys it's a Hershey bar today

say no no you've been watching too much

television

it is not Hershey bar you've got to be

smarter in philosophy than to fall for

the Hershey bar a day when it's an apple

adieu

you've got to be smarter than them and

if you make that kind of an error in

judgment every day for six years I'm

telling you it'll accumulate into

disaster sometimes here you say well you

know I'm still healthy now what

difference is it going to make you got

to be smarter than that

just because disaster doesn't fall on us

at the end of the first day doesn't mean

disaster isn't coming you've got to be

so smart that you look down the road and

say will the errors in my present

judgment of philosophy what's that going

to cost me in one year six years one

month six month I'm telling you the

money cost and the health cost and the

success cost is two gigantic if you look

down the road a little ways and say are

there errors in my current judgment like

an Apple versus the Hershey bar is that

just a good illustration of some of the

rest of my errors in judgment if it is

that's where I found myself at age 25 I

started working when I was 19 I met my

teacher who helped turn my life around

when I was 25 that's six years at the

end of the first six years of my

economic life I've got pennies in my

pocket

I've got nothing in the bank the

creditors are calling saying hey you

told us to check was in the mail I'm

embarrassed I'm behind on my promise I

live in America

I'm 25 year old American male I got a

nice family every reason to do well and

I messed up now what's messed up I used

to think it was the community that was

messed up and the country was messed up

and the government was messed up if

those Democrats ever get in the White

House that'll really mess things up the

Republicans stay in power that'll really

mess things up the economy was messed up

interest rates are messed up I thought

all this stuff was messed up then I

found out that's not what was messed up

I was criticizing the only thing I had

to work with what was really messed up

with my own personal philosophy my own

errors in judgment in my own personal

philosophy brought me in six years two

pennies in my pocket nothing in the bank

and trying to explain why I wasn't doing

well living in America 25 year-old

American made

got a family every reason to do with now

once I understood this here's the

formula for failure errors in judgment

being lacks about developing your own

personal philosophy I'm telling you it's

called accumulated disaster it doesn't

matter whether it's your health or your

bank account guys got an empty bank

account probably has high cholesterol

why over the last six years you never

paid attention to either one and it

doesn't matter whether it's a dollar or

what it's your money or what is your

cholesterol count all you got to do is

commit the errors and just because

disaster doesn't fall on you at the end

of the first day that you don't eat an

apple you say well I didn't need an

apple today and tonight I'm not yield

well you got to be brighter than that

someday you got to leave first grade

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reason we make those first grade s still

small so they won't fit at age 25 right

don't fall here anymore

come on now let me give you the secret

to success or another for failure a few

errors in judgment repeated every day

for one month starts the weakness starts

the disaster process you can imagine

what happens insecure now here's a

formula for success a few

simple

discipline

practice

every way and you've started a whole new

process called a whole new life a few

simple little is practice every day and

if you decide today to go for the Apple

instead of the Hershey bar I'm telling

you you have begun the process of

turning your life around and if you keep

up that process not only what your

health habits but with your money habits

and with your communication habit with

your sales habits and management habits

and every other habit that you got if

you'll start that process

eliminate the errors and replace it with

discipline practice I'm telling you can

start this process of life change

immediately after today you don't ever

have to be the same again

only by choice you don't have to walk

out of here the same as you walked in

today only by choice you can start a

whole new process you say when the

throne is at that simple

yes it's that simple where else would

you start but with an apple you don't

have to start with something staggering

what if you should be walking around the

block for your good health and you go

what'll I do in six years I'm telling

you the word of disaster you could and

you should and you don't here's the even

stronger word you won't I mean don't

make me you're careless won't probably

means you're stubborn and either weren't

called to that could cure no I'm telling

you that fly at the end of five years I

six years I found myself with pennies in

my pocket nothing in the bank creditors

calling could should won't could sure

don't is called disaster

now do you change all that the next six

years I got ribs the next six years I

became a millionaire by the time I was

31 I'm a millionaire how about that you

say well mr. Owen what happened well

strangely enough during that second six

years of my economic life the government

was about the same

I'm telling you taxes were about the

same my negative relatives were the same

I'm telling you the economy was about

the same and prices were about the same

and everything else was about the same

circumstances were about the same

then how come I got rich how come I

totally changed my life I was not the

same somebody says well where did you go

to work on to do all that I started with

my philosophy I started amending my

errors by doing some better thinking

changing my mind coming up with ideas

that I didn't have before I met my

teacher and once that whole process

started for me I'm telling you I changed

my whole life within a six-year period I

was never the same and I've checked up

that process all these years one of the

reasons why I'm here is to continue my

craft I don't want the day to come

someday somebody says you should have

heard Jim Rohn ten years ago when he was

really terrific

guess what I want people to say I heard

him 10 years ago but you should hear him

now I'm young as a man works on his

craft young needs a man's done some

extra reading I'm telling you the man

doesn't miss a trick I'm telling you

he's worked hard on himself that's why

he's able to deliver like you did the

same thing could happen for you as a

teenager it can happen to you as a

buzzer and the father as a

businessperson as a salesperson running

a business doesn't matter

management wherever you find yourself

this is the process called personal

change and what I say start with you

start with your own philosophy your

philosophy is going to determine whether

or not you go for the disciplines or

continue the errors that's called

potential business and everybody has it

within their power what we're so happy

for me to find out at 8:25 mr. shields

said mr. own you don't have to change

country but you do have to change

philosophy and if you'll change

philosophy not country you can turn

around your income you can turn around

your bank account you can turn around

your skills you can become capable

powerful sophisticated healthy

influential all the other equities that

you could possibly walk out of your life

using the only stuff there is and not

trying to change any of this stuff

appreciate all of this stuff with all of

its ups and downs with all of its

mystery of why it works and sometimes it

doesn't work don't challenge this you

don't have to ask for another planet you

don't have to ask for another country

just ask for another book ask for

another seminar ask for another idea

and you can start this whole process of

personal life thing and I could spend

the whole day on the lot that's where it

is

like if you would treat with that enough

to study it enough to ponder it to where

you pick up the commitment like I didn't

say hey as simple as an apple a day as

simple as a walk around the block

why not start right there if you know

what starts there where else you gonna

start might as well start where teens

then go to the more complicated because

if you can't handle the complex heat it

the simple disciplines how can you

handle the tough

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Let's Build a World for Us All! - by the Nevada DD Council - Duration: 3:53.

♫ Got a package full of wishes

♫ To be understood, integrated

♫ Loved and not alone

♫ No labels, no presumptions

♫ Support and reassurance

♫ Respect for one and all

♫ Fear on the minds I see

♫ Ignorance encloses me

♫ For I'm shunned just being me

♫ Lighting up the darkness

♫ Let's build a world for us all

♫ We can do anything

♫ With the candles we light

♫ Start miraculous things

♫ People they are hurting

♫ Let's reach for stars now

♫ Everyone of us is challenged

♫ Some visible, hidden deep

♫ Or those we just ignore

♫ But lets focus on the person

♫ The more we have in common

♫ No divisions anymore

♫ It starts with you

♫ Takes one you'll see

♫ To impact your community

♫ Come with me

♫ Take my hand

♫ Lighten up the darkness

♫ Let's build a world for us all

♫ We can do anything

♫ With the candles we light

♫ Start miraculous things

♫ We can work together

♫ Let's reach for stars now

♫ Let's build a world for us all

♫ We can do anything

♫ With the candles we light

♫ Start miraculous things

♫ We can work together

♫ Let's reach for stars now

♫ (Soothing piano music)

♫ Impact your community

♫ Come with me

♫ Take my hand

♫ Lighten up the darkness

♫ Let's build a world for us all

♫ We can do anything

♫ With the candles we light

♫ Start miraculous things

♫ We can work together

♫ Let's reach for stars now

♫ Let's build a world for us all

♫ We can do anything

♫ With the candles we light

♫ Start miraculous things

♫ We can work together

♫ Let's reach for stars now

♫ (Soothing piano music)

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Build a Better Us - Duration: 2:27.

Build a Better Us is very different from your normal small group.

It's like no group that I've ever been a part of.

Part of what I think makes it so deep is that everyone's trying to do the same thing.

I mean everyone can relate to each other in the sense that we're all married even though we're different races and

different backgrounds and different cultures, all that, we all are invested in

our marriage. It was hearing other people talk about

their struggles and in the back of our minds we're kind of on the car ride home

saying wow that's kind of happening with me that's how I feel.

It raises your awareness of issues and how to avoid pitfalls in your marriage and avoid fights

and avoid things that could cause bitterness or dissension down the road.

Build a Better Us feels like this is what God intended for us. This is what

God intended for fellowship to be. We get to know each other on a deep level. We

know the ins and outs the good the bad the ugly of each other. It's not just a

time to come in and say hi and put on your smile and greet each other and then

out the door. It's we know each other and they know us and they know our issues

and our struggles and they help us with us and we pray for each other genuinely

pray for each other and pray with each other.

It just dives deeper, you know, it covers everything covers all the bases. We have our discussion. We have couples

accountability. We have, you know, men separate and talk and women separate and talk.

we have a wiser couple night where we have a couple from outside of

the group that's extremely wise. They come and they talk to us and just kind of

share their story and there's no set script they just kind of share with us what's on their heart.

But we also have a date night, you know, once a month.

and at every single meeting we can sit down we have a meal together.

The biggest thing for us and build a better us is that we get to see godly marriages up

close and personal we get to see their trials and their struggles and how they

handle that and we take it home and can kind of help ourselves in our marriage

one of the most important things in a married person's life is their marriage

and so why would you not take out the time to just cultivate that and to just

even if it's a great marriage you can make it even better

when it's something that is obviously helping you grow in your marriage you

make time for it and we're very glad that we have made time for it.

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