Build a Better Us is very different from your normal small group.
It's like no group that I've ever been a part of.
Part of what I think makes it so deep is that everyone's trying to do the same thing.
I mean everyone can relate to each other in the sense that we're all married even though we're different races and
different backgrounds and different cultures, all that, we all are invested in
our marriage. It was hearing other people talk about
their struggles and in the back of our minds we're kind of on the car ride home
saying wow that's kind of happening with me that's how I feel.
It raises your awareness of issues and how to avoid pitfalls in your marriage and avoid fights
and avoid things that could cause bitterness or dissension down the road.
Build a Better Us feels like this is what God intended for us. This is what
God intended for fellowship to be. We get to know each other on a deep level. We
know the ins and outs the good the bad the ugly of each other. It's not just a
time to come in and say hi and put on your smile and greet each other and then
out the door. It's we know each other and they know us and they know our issues
and our struggles and they help us with us and we pray for each other genuinely
pray for each other and pray with each other.
It just dives deeper, you know, it covers everything covers all the bases. We have our discussion. We have couples
accountability. We have, you know, men separate and talk and women separate and talk.
we have a wiser couple night where we have a couple from outside of
the group that's extremely wise. They come and they talk to us and just kind of
share their story and there's no set script they just kind of share with us what's on their heart.
But we also have a date night, you know, once a month.
and at every single meeting we can sit down we have a meal together.
The biggest thing for us and build a better us is that we get to see godly marriages up
close and personal we get to see their trials and their struggles and how they
handle that and we take it home and can kind of help ourselves in our marriage
one of the most important things in a married person's life is their marriage
and so why would you not take out the time to just cultivate that and to just
even if it's a great marriage you can make it even better
when it's something that is obviously helping you grow in your marriage you
make time for it and we're very glad that we have made time for it.
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