hey guys opening strong on the video today I'm hanging out in my backyard
it's a beautiful day my neighbors were probably like what is this guy yelling
about let's talk all right so I'm gonna open up this video by asking myself
three questions I think at least one of them might resonate with you go ahead
and jump in number one do I feel like I want to create change and develop new
direction in my life but I always end up falling short at the first sign of
resistance and the fear of change okay number two am I constantly trying to
introduce new positive habits in my life and let go of all negative useless
habits yet I always feel like I'm falling back to square one okay number
three do I feel like I'm constantly just trying to get to the next future moment
thinking that that's where success lies without ever really knowing what that
success looks like to me just gonna keep looking up here hoping I find the answer
but the answer is yes to all three of those and the reason I'm asking myself
those questions is I find a lot of value in taking the time out of our schedules
out of our busy lives to question ourselves question who we are where our
lives are at in what direction our lives are pointing toward and in taking some
time to reflect with our inner self on our current life status
I think we can find some answers that are lying beneath the surface and find
some direction and impulses that can actually help us act and create change
in their lives I really believe that so I've never really taken the time ever to
ask myself questions generally if I had free time I would fill it up watching
Netflix the office in particular or reading fiction or scrolling through
Reddit or Facebook or anything really designed to just take up my attention
right something like external and lately I've been replacing some of that time
not all of it because there's nothing wrong with doing those things at all but
lately I've been trying to take about 20 minutes every day or if I'm busy that
week you know once or twice a week and really take some time to just turn off
my phone turn off the TV and ask myself some difficult questions and what it's
done is it's actually given me the time and the creativity to like really
brainstorm like new plans for changing my life and new plans for catapulting my
life in the direction I want to go in and so I find a lot of value in creating
a little bit of time very frequently to just question ourselves and ask
ourselves you know am i living the life I really envisioned it was my life
heading in the direction I want it to go and if it is how can I sustain that if
it's not what changes can I make right so for this video I wanted to go through
a couple questions that I think are very valuable and I'm gonna actually post
them in the comments below so I have my notebook and I already can't read my
writing but I'm gonna go ahead and jump right in question number one and I'm
gonna ask the question as if I'm asking you the question
what was your inner dialogue today or if you're asking this question to yourself
in the morning what was your inner dialogue yesterday
what does this question mean so this is gonna help you take inventory on how
you're treating yourself with your thoughts and your emotions it's gonna
allow you to take a step back at the end of the day and really think back on that
how did you treat yourself today how did you handle stress how did you handle
hearing about other people's success you know how did you handle your own success
today I think by asking yourself what would your inner dial on today it helps
you become more aware of if you're treating yourself the right way and if
you're not in becoming more aware of that you can take steps to give yourself
more compassion give yourself a freaking break you know give yourself some slack
you know you're probably doing a lot better in life than you think you are
and if you're doing great in life then sustain that inner dialogue and sustain
that positive thought thinking you're giving yourself right so that's question
number one question number two what does success mean to you so question what the
success yours driving form means to you and what it actually looks like and
you'll have a much more laser-like focused and clear direction on how to
get to where that is if you're not already there so these neighbors are
like dude what is this guy talking about okay number three what direction is your
life pointed towards and how do you feel about that do you feel like your life is
pointed in the direction where you want it to go and you see a lot of positive
things on the horizon awesome sustain that if you feel like you see a life
that you wish you were living but your legs are walking in the opposite
direction identify where you're going and identify what steps you can start
taking today to realign and shift that direction of your life so that you are
pointing in the direction you want to get by questioning the direction your
life is going you'll become more where of where you are and what changes
you can make to get to where you want to be or what bad habits and behaviors you
can continue doing to sustain the path you're on okay number four what is today
or tomorrow single most important goal what single one action can you do to
move toward that direction that you want to continue going in or you want to
change to number five are you willing to own your full potential number six what
fears are keeping you from doing what you know you have to do in life and
that's a great question and I think it'll reveal a lot about what fears are
driving your actions today no no no that's my neighbor's lemons beginning to
fight over there they're arguing over something
number seven they're arguing over which question they're gonna ask themselves
first that's what it is okay number seven what are the achievements that
you're proud of in your life can you look back on those achievements you've
done and maybe recreate what you did in a current obstacle that's currently in
your life so what achievements are you proud of in
your life and on yourself to those a lot of times you know we tend to think of
the negative things about ourselves think about the positive things you've
done and see if you can recreate those and to overcome current obstacles in
your life right I just said that twice alright number eight what advice would
you give yourself three years ago I like that one a lot number nine what
bad habits can you eliminate from your life number 10
what what one fear worry or anxiety have you been holding on to that you can
share with someone this week there was a particular fear that I've been going
around that I've been going through very heavily lately I just kept circling
around it and I just could not get out of it and I brought it up to a colleague
at work a couple days ago and this individual said that they had been going
through the exact same thing and they provided awesome direction and awesome
advice that totally shifted my perspective and put me back in a state
of mental control and while their advice was helpful I think the mere act of me
just sharing it with someone sharing this fear that I've kept hidden away
from the world and and voicing it out to someone else just the act of sharing it
with them allow me to flesh it flush it out of my system and allowed for massive
transformation transformative change for me in an instant so what's one fear
warrior anxiety that you can share with the world this week I promise you just
getting it off your chest will make you feel so much better it'll be a weight
off your shoulders you'll feel lighter more clear-headed relaxed docile
peaceful if this is interesting to you take some time to really just ask
yourself some questions take a step outside of your normal daily routine
it's been a couple moments every day or each week reflecting on your inner
genius and ask yourself questions that will help you get to where you need to
be much love peace thank you for watching I'll be back


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