Sometimes what can happen when you're building your dreams, there's going to be people in your lives that don't support you.
Maybe it's your husband, your wife, your family, your friends...
Today we're going to be talking about specific tools and strategies on how to keep moving forward when the people around you
maybe aren't as supportive as you would like them to be.
Hi, I'm Stacey Berger with Mastering your Mindset. Often times
what can happen is when you set a goal and a vision and you're very excited about that,
you want to tell your friends and your family and you really are expecting them to buy into that. To get as equally as
excited. So what happens when they're not as excited? And maybe even start to plant those seeds of fear,
doubt and worry in your mind, which can then derail you and maybe set you back.
So how do you handle that feedback from other people as you're building your dreams?
There was a time in my life where I was offered a pretty significant opportunity, and I was really excited about it,
but there was also a part of me that was hesitant,
and I wasn't quite sure if I would be able to do that job.
So I went to somebody that I cared deeply about, and trusted and talked to them about it and
right away they said, "I don't think you should do it. I think it's too big of an opportunity. What if you fail?
What if it doesn't work out?" and that
really planted a seed of doubt into my mind.
Luckily I had tools, I had other structures of support that I went to, and eventually said yes to that opportunity.
So why do people we care about, why can't they always support us in our dreams and our visions?
What happens is our friends and our family, they have their own paradigms.
They have their own beliefs and when they see us growing, when they see those opportunities,
sometimes their natural instinct is to protect us because they love us and they care about us,
and they're also wondering what that impact is going to be on them.
So don't be surprised if the people who you care about deeply and the most
can't always hold that same vision for you and for your life.
So how to handle that? First of all there's a difference between keeping your vision and knowing that it is sacred
versus secret. I always say until you're really
confident with your vision, with your goal, to be very careful who you're sharing that with.
That sometimes that raised eyebrow from the wrong person it can kill a dream.
And so if we're not careful about who we're sharing it with,
oftentimes we don't move forward. And
so, knowing that the people around you that care about you, they love you, and they're doing the best that they can -
but to make sure that you're surrounding yourself with other people, other mentors, other people that have
accomplished the things that you want to accomplish so they can be those verbal supporters.
Knowing that as you're holding that vision strong, as you're moving towards, that oftentimes the people around you will eventually
buy into that vision and support you, but it often happens on their timeline not our timeline.
So just keep moving forward, have other verbal supporters around you knowing that it's really what lights you up,
that's the most important thing. If you're ready to step into a life that you love and accomplish those goals
and want to learn about the structures of support that can be in place for you,
go ahead and sign up for the complimentary strategy session in the link below
and we'll have a conversation about what that could look like for you.
What are some ways that you keep
motivated when maybe you've got those doubters and
rhose people who are trying to squash your dreams in your life? Comment below,
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