Have you ever asked yourself
what is my personality type and are you curious to why you react the way that you do your
Relationships drive the way that they do and maybe even that you have some preferences that you absolutely need to be in place
To be comfortable in specific situations. Well, if that's you and you're not sure of what your personality type is
I'm gonna ask you to stay with my video because today that's exactly what we are talking about specifically the myers-briggs personality
Testing and at the end of this video. I have a myers-briggs personality quiz for you to take it's coming your way right now
Well, hey y'all, welcome back to my channel if you've been here for a bit
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My name is Lauren and my channel is all about
Making Beauty easy for the girl who thinks that she can't
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which is every single Friday and now the fourth Tuesday of the month and the third Thursday of the month with that said
I'm really excited to dive into our first transform your mind Tuesday
And that is what today's video is and our topic is gonna be personality testing
And so you might be asking like Lauren why in the world are we talking about?
personality testing when your whole topic is going to be based upon transforming your mind and you know,
what if you're asking that it's a really valid question and there's a couple reasons why so specifically I want to talk about
Myers-briggs today if you've ever taken any personality test before there's tons out there I've taken the disk test and I've taken even some others
When I was like in the corporate world, but those tests really don't explain to you your internal wiring
They're really more for like work life
And what I want to do with personality testing is give you more of like a life life on why you're made up the way
that you are like
Relationally what careers are best for you. How you handle?
Conflict and why you might react in the ways that you do when things present themselves, are you afraid of conflict?
Do you embrace it all of those kinds of things and to be honest with you?
myers-briggs personality testing change everything for me because when I figured out who I
Was with that like how I was made and wired I was like wow
this is really just super revelational and I had so many lightbulb moments after I took this test and so I personally
Think that this is like the basis
For what you need to know about yourself in order for us to get into some really like heavy topics or meat potatoes on
This topic of doing something with transforming your mind when we're talking about
body image and self-image and insecurities and
Feeling worthy and hustling for your worth all of those things
I really think boiled down to I need to know who I am first
So I've written down some notes over here
And I've got my laptop out
Because I want to explain to you a little bit about myers-briggs if you're not familiar with it
and then what you can do actually is take the test because I've listed it down in the description box below and I've also given
You some resources and let me just say this. Some of the websites are a little old and clunky. They really need some updating
so they're not the prettiest things to look at but the information that you will learn especially once you know
Your type is so valuable that I think you'll really absolutely love that
And so I wanted to make sure that you had those resources and you didn't have to go hunting for that
After you left this video
So the first thing I want to talk about is why you need to know your personality type and this is so very important
I think the reason why I feel like this is so important why I kind of wanted to I got a shift on my couch
You guys sorry. Oh, I bumped it. I'm sorry about the camera
I
Think there's so many reasons why this is super important and I want to give you a few that I think you need to know
so the reason why I think this is so important is because myers-briggs really helped me to
Understand like the internals of how I am like how my preferences are for the world to work how my preferences are for
Relationships to work how my preferences are on like career fields? I think this is a common question that I hear all the time
I think a lot of people are not happy and their jobs, they don't love what they do
They you know, they really just you know
they live for the weekend that kind of thing and one of the first things I always think about when someone tells me that is
I always go
I
Wonder what their personality type is and if because of that they're in the wrong career field or they're in the right career field
But they're in the wrong job for what they want to do
So it's things like that that Myers really helped me to learn about myself and I was like wow
This is super empowering for me to know how I function
so the other reason is is that you actually will know yourself better like you're gonna have more of
You're gonna have more of an internal understanding of how you experience the world around you and I think this is so
Important to know because if you don't understand those things and you're constantly frustrated with yourself on how you react to certain situations
Maybe you're frustrated relationally and let's be really honest you're frustrated with yourself because you're not happy with who you are
Maybe the reason that starts from is because you don't even know how you're wired and how you're made in the first place
for you to even embrace things about you that are strengths and then for you to
Understand the weaknesses that you struggle with and figure out ways that are healthy to combat those things over time
So this is really why this is so important to me and why I kind of wanted to share that with you
So let me look at my notes and make sure and can't miss anything and then I want to talk about what the whole personality
Typing is if you haven't done myers-briggs, so just doing a brief overview here
Oh, the other thing I didn't mention is that this will also help you
This is a huge thing and we'll talk about this again as we continue to dive deeper into this topic
That is my ultimate goal
We're gonna talk about things like this creating better boundaries when I figured out myself and was like, oh wow
I have some unhealthy ways of relating to the world around me and people and there's toxic people in my life who I don't need
To be there and oh my gosh
like this helped me to even learn it was like the start of me learning how to even create better boundaries for myself so that
I can protect me so at the end of the day my goal and this is for you to be confident in yourself
For you to have exceptional relationships with people and for you to pursue your dreams because you were made for something incredible
You are fearfully and wonderfully made on top of that and there's a purpose and planning for your life
And if you're not sure of what that is
We kind of have to start at the basics before we can build into all of the big things that transform your mind
Tuesday is gonna be so that's why we're doing this today
So let's actually dive into the four letters that are gonna make up your personality type. So basically it goes like this
There's a there's the first one is you're either going to be an e or an I and Amy's
Extrovert and I means introvert if you're not familiar with it what those are let me just kind of briefly describe them
Extroverts are energized by people. They enjoy a variety of tasks a quick pace and are good at multitasking
Eyes are introverts. They often like working alone or in small groups
They prefer a more deliberate pace and like to focus on one task at a time
This one is typically one that most people go. Oh, I know exactly what I am. I will see this
I've had so many friends take this over the years and
Sometimes the results actually will surprise you and I'll let you know my personality type as we get to the end here and a few
Strengths and a few weaknesses. So you guys can kind of learn a little bit about me, too
The next letter is s or n and so s is a sensor
So sensors are realistic people who like to focus on the facts and details
They apply common sense and past experience to find practical solutions to problems and means you're an intuitive
So an intuitive prefers to focus on possibilities the big picture easily easy
You easily see patterns as well as you value innovation and you see creative solutions to solve problems
So those are s or N and I will say this. I'm an S
Personality and one of my weaknesses has been if I have had bad things happen to me in the past
Sometimes that's how I'll look at the future and I'll go oh man
But this happened and what if history repeats itself and I can tend to focus too much on how that past experience was
so that's kind of a weakness that I'm just sharing off the bat just because when I read that I was like
Oh, I do that. So that's one
The next letter is T or F
So thinker or feeler thinkers tend to make their decisions using logical analysis
Objectively way pros and cons and value honesty consistency and fairness and then feelers you guys are gonna be and I see you guys
I'm a feeler too feelers tend to be sensitive and cooperative and they decide based on their own personal values and how others will be
Affected by their actions. My husband and I are both deep feelers and this is really great in our relationship and it's also
An absolute disaster, so I'll kind of talk about that as we go - and the last letter is J or P
So if you're a J
You're a judge and don't freak out by that word that does not mean you sit just judging people
That is not what it means. I'm gonna talk about it
So judgers mean you tend to be organized and prepared you like to make and stick to plans and are most comfortable
Following most rules. I'm a J big hard J coming at you
Alright a P a perceiver is someone who perceives for I'm sorry perceivers prefer to keep their options open
They like to be able to act spontaneously
And they like to be flexible with making plans that life scares me. So if you're a P
Congratulations. I love you, but that life freaks me out and my husband of course is a P
so
those are the letters that you're gonna get and when you take this test you're going to get four letters and that's gonna actually give
you a personality type and then this is when your world is just gonna be like
Completely turned upside down and you'll be mind blown by the results because you're gonna go. Oh my gosh
I know all these things about me makes sense. So for me, I am an e I'm an extrovert. I am an S
I'm a sensor. I am a J a gender
Oh, no, wait a feeler first and then a J judger, so I'm an es f J
so the perfect person to describe a personality type when I started learning about myself I was like
I wonder what celebrities or EF Jays es f J's and there's a lot of them out there
but the one that stuck out with me was
Monica Geller's the character from friends is based off of an SF
Jey, and so that made me laugh and also feel pretty good about myself because I've been called Monica my whole life
I'm not as neurotic as she is or her character was but I am definitely a Monica personality
And so in saying that it's kind of funny because I started to go. Oh wow
Ok, that's why I do those things and it's like I said, my friends have called me that my whole life
So I have a very strong personality. I see life in black and white
There's not a lot of grey in my life. I have a very strong sense of right and wrong and
Left or right? It's black or white
It's this or that and my husband and I always joke about it because he's a lot of gray and I'm very black and white
Ok, so as an es FJ
I have some amazing strengths and then I have some really
Hard weaknesses that I have to work on and I wanted to share a couple strengths with you guys and then a couple of weaknesses
Because this is what you really need to embrace about yourself is that again?
You were created with an absolute plan and purpose the way that you're wired is not wrong
I don't care what personality type you are. You're not wired wrong
there is a
There's a reason that you are the way that you are and so my goal is to help you figure that part out today
So that going forward as we continue to dive into deeper topics on transform your mind Tuesday
You have a really good basis for who you are and you're comfortable
With that piece of yourself and so for me for many years
I was like man, I'm just so different than other people and you know, I can you know
one of the negative things that I had to learn to overcome is I used to be kind of a bulldog about everything and I
Still have very strong convictions
But I live life differently now than how I used to but I just thought me that's not you know
People just aren't wired like that or you know, I'm just I'm just I'm just kind of a mess
like I'm
you know so different and
Why do I think like this and why do I have to have same things a certain way for me to be happy or comfortable?
and when I took this test and realized like oh
There's nothing wrong with me
I was actually created this way and it does serve a purpose
And so that's the whole goal here today is that you kind of get comfortable with that?
So let me give you a couple of my strengths
So an ESS ESS?
J has a strong sense of right and wrong as I already mentioned
Easily empathizes with another person is able to share feelings with other people cares greatly about the welfare of others
Open honest and forthright about the way that they see things is some of my weaknesses
I are kind of as follows may be unable to
Acknowledge anything that goes against their certainty about the correct or right way to do things
That is something I have to work on all of the time. It's just in 8ly in me
like, you know, this is the way the world works is out to be and
I'm starch about it. And so I have to constantly work on that
and so what I've come to realize over the years is that I have my own my own like
Beliefs that, you know are our convictions for me
but where I'm at in my life now is like I have all of that but
So support the right for someone to figure that out for themselves and used to I was not like that
especially in my early 20s
I was just like no
It should be this way cuz now it is and I've definitely changed a lot but this test is what helped me go
Oh, that's a problem. That is seriously a problem
So one of the other ones is maybe unable to understand verbal logic and quickly cut off others explanations
I have done that too
So these are some of the things that I have to constantly think about and work on on a regular
Basis and I can remember a few years ago when I took this test
I was an unhealthy version of Annie sfj, all of these things that are weaknesses
They were my like go-to first response on everything and when I realized that I was like boo, this is not good
These are the things that need to change. These are the things that negatively impact my relationships
These are the things that negatively impact me as a person and I need to change and work on these things
so as I started to continue to kind of dive into
just learning more about myself and honestly for many years I
Saw a therapist and learned so much
I am NOT a psychology major by any form or fashion or stretch of the word but through counseling and learning about proper ways to
just perform new create new habits, and then that becomes my
my go-to response
I
Don't tend it like I read these now like I'm sitting here doing this on camera for the first time in a while like reading
This stuff going wow
I don't react that way anymore and I can remember a time when I used to and
so this is kind of the stuff that I'm looking to really empower you with and I wanted to start here today because I think
it is so very important to know your personality type and really
Understand the way that you function the way that you prefer to receive information
The way that you prefer to deal with things in the world and all of that. I think it's so vastly important
So here's my question for you. Once you take the test that's in the description box
I want to know what your personality type is
And the second thing I want to know is what surprised you the most like, what did you go?
Holy crap, that is totally need and then what thing do you kind of need to work on?
Like what's that thing that you go?
me and that really hit my heart and I see that I do that a lot and I really need to work on that because
It's not good for me, and it's not good for my relationships
So that is what I want to know down in the comments below
So I hope this video has been super intriguing for you today to go. Yeah, girl
I do not know what personality type and I need to know what it is because again as we dive deeper into this topic
I'm so excited about have so many great things coming for you guys over this year with transform your mind Tuesday
I really wanted to make sure that you have such a good sense of who you are and I'll probably refer back to this video
Several times just because if you don't know that if you don't have that basis
I really think it's gonna be tough to try and overcome some things because you're just gonna get frustrated with yourself
Because sometimes it's really hard especially with those weaknesses to go. Oh, man
Why is that always my first response, but then what's really great is you can see all of your strengths and you can go
Oh my gosh, these are amazing things about me and these are the things that I want to continue to develop
so with the resources that are below I think it's 16 personality types calm and then it's
personal
Personal, I don't know it's down. I'll bliss it below because I can't remember it off the top of my head
But basically when you click into these websites the one that's really clunky
You'll you'll see it as soon as you click on it
What I want you to do is click careers click relationships
and what you have to do is scroll down a little bit and actually select your
Personality type and then you can actually read about yourself
So make sure you do that because each one of those you'll see the portrait section and the portrait is gonna give you an overall
About your personality and then of course
You can learn about your career learn about your relationships if you are if you are married or you've got a boyfriend
Like figure out what they are - and see how your types relate to each other
Have them take this test because it'll help you in your relationship
It talks about how you're gonna raise kids
So if you've got kids and you want to know more about that, it's gonna talk about all those kinds of preferences
So really use those resources down below and let me know in the comments, of course
What was the most surprising thing or the most like? Oh my gosh
Yeah, that nailed it like all of those kinds of things. Let me know
I want to have conversation with you down in the comments
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