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James Franco awkwardly reply in Interview | Dark cloud over James Franco - Duration: 1:38.

Actor James Franco addressed recent sexual misconduct allegations leveled against him

during an uncomfortable "Late Show" interview on Tuesday night.

Franco, who earned an Oscar nomination for "127 Hours," was criticized by some social

media users for wearing a Time's Up pin in solidarity with the movement against sexual

harassment to Sunday's Golden Globes.

Actress Violet Paley and filmmaker Sarah Tither-Kaplan recently accused Franco on Twitter of earlier

instances of sexual misconduct.

When host Stephen Colbert asked Franco about the allegations posted online, the actor said

the "things that I heard were on Twitter are not accurate, but I completely support people

coming out and being able to have a voice."

In an interview punctuated with awkward pauses, Colbert asked Franco about how he thought

reconciliation could be achieved between two people with different views of an incident.

"If there is restitution to be made I will make it," Franco responded.

"If I have done something wrong, I will fix it.

I have to."

"Breakfast Club" star Ally Sheedy also made several vague references to the actor on Twitter

on Sunday before deleting them.

"Why is James Franco allowed in?

Said too much," Sheedy tweeted during the Golden Globes ceremony, which saw Franco honored

as Best Actor for his role in "The Disaster Artist."

"James Franco just won.

Please never ever ask me why I left the film/tv business," she tweeted shortly after Franco

accepted his award.

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Summoners war - HOW TO RUNE NEPHTHYS/ DARK DESERT QUEEN - Duration: 17:38.

She's good, real good, I will show you.

Hello everyone, you're here with Pamme Gaming Channel.

Today I have a special content and proudly to present to you guys.

It is "Pamme Shows Rare"

oh...what is it?

My Show Rare is to show monsters that hard to summon or people barely use them.

or someone has them but

don't know how to rune them properly.

which is that leads us to this content.

To help our friends to find the

way to rune and use their monsters

understanding their's skills,

how to use them with combos.

The first monster, I am going to

review on this special episode, is, a Dark desert queen.

or her name is "Nephthys"

I heard a lot of people complaining

about this monster.

just because they don't know

what is the best runes for her

some says it sucks,

some says it's lame,

even worse, someone says,

it is the worst desert queen among five elements.

I was like, whoa..calm down.

I don't think she is that horrible right?

now it's time to show that,

she doesn't suck

How to rune her, and use her.

and what her skills are good for

we will see all of those on this video.

First skill, Touch of Seduction.

Every time she attacks the enemy

it will have 50% chance to

break the enemy's attack power for two turns.

or in Thai we called it "break sword"

Obviously, the percent to land this effect is pretty high at 50%

The second skill, Curse of the Beautiful.

It will attack all enemies for three times

each time it has 50% to land the effects.

which includes armor breaks, glancing,

and heal blocks.

which will do these effects for 2 turns.

and 50% chance is very high.

If you think about it, it does three time,

each time 50% chance,

don't you think it will land somethings?

Her passive,

Deadly charm.

This passive will support both

skill 1&2 especially skill 2.

Because the enemy cannot resist your debuffs

which means those effects such as

heal blocks, armor breaks and glancing.

will definitely landed (if the passive works)

what it means?

oh I forgot to add some info.

It doesn't work over enemy with

Will rune (or immunity up)

but if the enemy doesn't have Will rune

the passive may work on it.

which again all debuffs will be landed 100% if the passive is working.

Let think simple, skill 2, has three times attack

and each attack has 50% to land debuffs but with the passive

if it works instead of 50% it will be 100% landing,

but if the passive just happened to not working.

Skill 2 still works at 50% chance to land the debuffs.

Plus with this passive,

your Nephthys won't get stunned ever.

and every inability effects such as freeze from Verad.

but still can be broken armor

and also can get heal blocks from enemy.

but definitely no stuns on her.

Speed attack plus 24% for leader skill.

for all allies

everywhere she goes.

In arena, guild war or dungeons.

For whoever who never had speed leader yet.

Nephthys works!

using her instead of Chiwu or

Vanessa or Psamathe, would do.

Even though it is just 24% spd lead

but still better than Gemini.

Ok it's time to check out her runes.

My Nephthys equipped with Despeirs runes

and endure.

because of her AOE skill on the 2nd skill.

It must be beneficial if I put stun runes on her.

which is three times attack plus stun runes is so OP.

I guarantee gotta have sometime that stun landed.

I will show you her stats.

I runed her so beefy so she can survive the fight.

with +19k HP and +615 def

and speed very good at +116

I put her on 100% resistance because

I don't want her to get armor breaks.

even though she can't get stunned as well.

slot 2, spd.

slot 4, hp%

slot 6, hp%

all sub, hp%, speed, and def%

but this one I just can't find better rune for her.

so she has to put up with it lol

so this is my best runes at moment.

and maybe upgraded in the future.

let's go testing her out in arena and guildwar.

My experiment, I used her with

Zeratu and Betta. They were going together pretty well.

Versus the defend like Fire anubis, let see how it goes.

This one she derped, no broken armors landed.

but atleast she got the heal blocks

going on, which wasn't bad.

see her first skill?

50% chance landing good enough right?

My Zeratu will do hard job today, cuz no armor breaks.

This team is so cheap, because

Zeratu got 50% hp lead on dark monsters.

so this will help out the dark monsters team a lot.

especially on our support units.

which made my Betta and Nephthys are so tanky.

thats why I like to put high def on my support units.

with those immunity from Betta,

the enemy cannot break armor.

so this is the first example for guild battle.

so if you just happened have Zeratu and Nephthys,

just use this team for offense.

but if you don't have Zeratu.

I suggested you use bruiser unit with hp leader.

This is the second example.

Popular defend team you might see a lot.

which is Molong, Ritesh or

sometime wind Panda and one fire unit.

Now she got all of them armor breaks.

and now its time for ZERATU.

see if you have a very good connection

of your combination.

You will have a perfect team.

I know now everyone is yelling at me.

that yaaa you have Zeratu, hes so cheap!!!.

but I know for fact that everyone

will have better monsters than my Zeratu.

so please try to apply not to copy.

For example, Chow, or

Water Dragon Knight. ya can replace Zeratu.

or Xing Zhe, Wind Monkey King, with 33%hp leader.

just rune him high hp and high atk.

when you go with two supporters you need an attacker that

make very high amount of damage.

Last example for guild battle,

this one will point out that she can't be stunned.

as you can see Betta got stunned but Nephthys.

(was laughing at how ridiculously damage my Zeratu just did)

so ya I think she doesn't suck like others said.

ok let check out arena.

Using Nephthys leads, we went off first.

so this is one of the example for

arena offense using her with Zaiross and Lushen.

in case you don't have Psamathe or other speed leader.

This one with Triton (Stripper).

I guess one Lushen can handle it.

Because mostly are water monsters.

two stunned.

you will see aoe three times are very OP with 50% chance to land.

for people who has such a rare

monster and don't know how to rune.

don't give up ok?

come here and watch my video and leave me a comment.

I will try to find the answer for you.

ok test out on Chiwu as a leader.

I used Lushens just to make a big amount of damage.

oops my other Lushen is useless now.

You see those red dots on the enemies? feel good heh.

what a nice example.

ok we are at the end now.

Hope you guys enjoy my Nephthys or Dark desert queen review.

You see that she is very good eh?

so if you have any questions, comments and requests.

For more infomation >> Summoners war - HOW TO RUNE NEPHTHYS/ DARK DESERT QUEEN - Duration: 17:38.

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Résumé du Nintendo Direct 11 janvier : Dark Souls, Mario Tennis... - Duration: 6:03.

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Dark Souls Remastered Announcement - Duration: 1:14.

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Permanent Lighten Dark Neck & Dark Underarms, Best Home Remedies & Cream - Duration: 4:45.

I have received tons of requests for neck whitening

And many people look worried regarding this issue also

So, toady we cover 2 common issues, black neck & dark underarms

Updating my previous video we'll make an amazing scrub and a whitening cream

If you follow regularly these simple steps, you can get start flawless skin from the first week

Oatmeal

Also called wheat porridge,

It's a wonderful skin exfoliator, heals the skin and has anti inflammatory properties.

Almost suitable for every skin type, even suitable for more sensitive skin

Grind the wheat porridge as powder and take 1 tbs

Put 1 tbs yogurt

1 tbs almond oil if you don't have, you can use coconut oil instead

Now, mix it well

Yogurt has lactic acid helps to remove dead skin

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Getting Over It's DARK REALITY! (Getting Over It with Bennett Foddy - Ending Theory) - Duration: 5:54.

[Exotic manly grunts]

One burly man.

One cauldron of water.

One long hammer.

With their powers combined, you have one of the most finicky, rage inducing games of 2017.

However, while most people became distraught over both the physics and controls of this

game, I actually found it oddly therapeutic?

Yeah I know, I know.

That sounds super weird.

But let me explain.

I'm a guy who takes it slow wherever I go.

If I'm outdoors or exploring the worlds of games, I take time to appreciate where

I'm at.

Getting Over It was no different.

While the controls took some getting used to, I found myself really appreciating this

abstract mountain that I set out to climb.

It reminded me of a lot of games like the Worms series where the environments just had

random objects scattered about.

So even if I plummeted off the mountain - which I did…

A LOT - I surprisingly didn't rage too much.

However, it did make me buckle down on a goal though…

The goal to reach the top of this mountain…

And I think that's exactly why I loved this game.

It made me reflect.

This kind of focused thinking can be dangerous…

Let me explain why.

This is the psychological journey of Getting Over It.

Throughout the game you are told messages that are in reference to your successes and

failures.

The game starts by planting the idea "Starting over is harder than starting up".

It's harder because it makes you feel as if whatever you just quote unquote accomplished

was a waste of time.

And this is thrown in your face over and over again.

You'll make it half way up the mountain, and then you'll fall.

You'll be setback so far that it makes you question your own journey and the time you've

spent getting there.

But that's the exact moment all of this becomes dangerous…

Depending on the type of person you are, one of two things happens.

You either give the game the finger and quit out of it, or you buckle down even harder

than before to make up that lost time.

In the second instance, you'll learn from your mistakes and grow from them the next

time you tackle that obstacle.

Seems pretty straightforward, right?

Well let's drop the game now.

Let's take that exact concept and apply it to real life.

This kind of situation hit me really hard because I'm certainly a repeat offender

of it.

Chasing after a dream and success isn't a bad thing at all.

We all want to make it to the top of the mountain so to speak.

We have our ups and our downs and sometimes we give up and throw in the towel.

When we don't though, we might pursue that goal even harder the next time we try again.

Repeatedly we get beat down and inch closer to that dream, but there's dangers in that

lifestyle.

As a YouTuber my first full time year of doing weekly YouTube videos made me an absolute

shell of a person.

I was always focused on what was coming next.

What's the next video going to be on, what's the next biggest thing…

The life I was living became foreign to me because I became so focused on my goal that

I simply forgot to live.

And I'm not the only one.

Think of how many people have been making videos on this same exact topic.

Creators you may look up to who may feel like they have no clue about their own life because

they've always just looked towards that next video.

They were in a funnel and never stopped.

When they did stop, they completely broke down and didn't know what to do.

This happened to me about a year ago and I talked about it in my Home Alone video.

Hearing other people having the same problem really cemented the idea that we can become

too focused on everything and forget about living.

For those of us who have put the time in to scale Getting Over It's crazy mountain,

you may find yourself faced with a similar feeling.

Even though we want what is at the top, do we really even know what we will do once we

get there?

We honestly don't remember the positive aspects of our journey because we became saturated

in the difficult parts of our climb.

Where we were didn't matter because all that mattered was chasing that light.

And that's incredibly lonely…

When we finally reach the top of the mountain in Getting Over It, we can launch into space.

We are so happy that we have blasted off and the only place we can go from here is to the

stars.

But space is dark and dreary…

It's an odd juxtaposition for the mood we are supposed to be feeling.

We're happy we finished everything but we're left alone drifting through the void.

This is exactly why this game was therapeutic for me.

Until I checked back into reality, being a YouTuber was like drifting in space.

I had my eyes on the future and I was nowhere in the present.

So while other people may have grown angry over this game, I sort of had the opposite

reaction.

It was another reality check for me.

A reminder to never become that blinded by success again.

The journey is truly the important part.

We need to live in the moment and make sure we don't become possessed by our ambitions.

We also need to make sure we don't swing around hammers so carelessly…

Just saying.

Getting Over It is so DEEP!

Or I'm just really, really overthinking it...

Uh...

But now that I've dumped that on all of you, I'd of course like to hear your thoughts.

Of course Getting Over It is rage inducing…

But how did the game speak to you?

Was it simply extreme frustration, or was it something more?

Let me know your thoughts in the comments below!

By the way, this is literally a concept I had just covered in my book about being a

YouTuber.

I'm pretty excited about the book which is called The YouTuber Journey.

If you've ever thought about trying YouTube out, I hope you find the book enlightening.

It covers everything I wish I knew about the platform when I first started.

The book will be out in a week or two, so stay tuned!

And with that…

Thanks for tuning into this rage analysis of a metaphorical mountain!

If you like my content, why not hit that subscribe button?

I appreciate the support and you'll stay up to date with all my releases.

Thanks for watching guys and gals, and until my next video - cheers!

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How To Be Extra: Glow in the Dark Makeup! - Duration: 9:22.

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Dark Souls Remastered CONFIRMED INFO! (Graphics, Multiplayer and much more!) - Duration: 4:34.

Hello everyone this is Sanadsk and today one of the biggest news dropped which is Dark

Souls Remastered!

There were alot of rumors lately but it has finally been confirmed and I will be filling

you in with all of the details about the gameplay and multiplayer and all the good stuff!

So Dark Souls Remastered is set to be released in the 24th of May 2018 in Japan and on the

25th of May in other parts of the world on PC, PS4, Xbox One and Nintendo Switch.

Now the website has alot of information but it is in Japanese but don't worry, I got you

covered here!

So about the graphics of the game, the game originally ran at 30 frames per second and

720p resolution, but now it is going to be 60 frames per second and 1080p Full HD graphics.

Now about the graphics of the game itself, the image we have seen is actually the Cover

Art and not actual gameplay sadly, but the website mentions that the graphics were optimized

for the latest hardware.

Now this doesn't confirm that the game is going to be looking like a new game or if

it is going to be like Scholar of the First Sin, but I suspect that it is going to be

with imporved lighting and effects and stuff like that, similar to Scholar of the First

Sin.

But don't take my word on it as it might be something else.

Also it can run on Upscaled 4K for PS4 Pro and Xbox One X and native 4K on PC.

Also the Switch version is a bit different as it runs only in 30 frames per second, but

I guess it is expected as the other consoles hold much more power than the Switch.

Now for the multiplayer, they are switching from Peer-To-Peer to dedicated servers.

Now I am not sure if this is actually a good move for the Souls series because the game

has PvE and PvP and that might affect the experience a little bit if we are tied to

server-based combat, but I think it will be optimized in a good way.

Also the maximum players per world were increased from 4 player to 6 players which means even

more hectic combat and PvP with the arenas and everything.

Just imagine the Darkroot Garden with so much players!

The remaster also includes the Artorias of the Abyss DLC with it as part of the main

game.

Now I am wondering if they are going to add more stuff like some of the cut content for

example but when the game gets released, I am going to be here to cover everything!

Also one more thing that was announced alongside was the Trilogy Box for hardcore Dark Souls

fans!

This contains so many custom made Dark Souls stuff and the first thing we have are Bookends

that you can place your books in between.

I would've love for them to be colored but they do look super amazing here.

It also has a bunch of books with it including Item Encyclopedias, one for each game with

a total of 1000 pages.

The game discs of course and the Official Soundtrack.

There is also a memorial art set which includes a special stand and 10 special artworks including

new visuals.

All this is for 49800 Yens which is approxematly 450$ which is a hefty price but it does have

alot of amazing things and hardcore fans will be super happy about this.

So that is all we currently know about the Remastered Dark Souls and hopefully we get

more gameplay soon!

Also I have dumped the DLC files of Bloodborne so expect to see alot of Bloodborne DLC cut

content very soon on this channel

so subscribe so you don't miss it!

Bye Bye

For more infomation >> Dark Souls Remastered CONFIRMED INFO! (Graphics, Multiplayer and much more!) - Duration: 4:34.

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Dossiê - Última Luz (Night Lovell - Dark Light (Remix) - Duration: 3:00.

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Expert advises Logan Paul to 'stay in the dark for six months' - Duration: 5:04.

Expert advises Logan Paul to 'stay in the dark for six months'

With the controversy surrounding Logan Paul not going away anytime soon, we wonder how the YouTube star could possibly recover from such a PR clusterf*ck.

Once the golden child of the vlogging world, Logan raked in $800k a month, uploading ridiculous videos and pranks to his 15 million-plus subscribers, but after the 22-year-old uploaded a video of a dead body, hanging from a tree in an area in Japan known as the 'suicide forest', his career and reputation was instantly reduced to rubble.

A digital money machine that, according to experts, has amassed a multi-multi-million dollar fortune, this scandal stands to cost him all.

Metro.co.uk spoke to celebrity expert Eric Schiffer, Chairman of Reputation Management Consultants, who told us Logan needs to 'stay dark' and let things settle before even thinking about making a public comeback.

  'The scandal will scorch him with advertisers who opted out of his video library on YouTube and sponsorships faster than he could fly home from Tokyo,' Schiffer said.

'The most sensitive brands – who once wanted the 'young clicks' from his account – react within hours.' Weirdly, though, Logann subscription count increased following the post, as curious punters flocked to his channels to see what all the fuss was about.

'People like total train wrecks, especially in viral videos,' Schiffer proffered.

'The international press exposed his body of work to a wider "Logan Paul-ready" audience who would have gravitated towards him anyway.' Last week Logan decided to take a step back from fresh vlogging, telling his 4.7 million Twitter followers he was 'taking time to reflect', and, according to Schiffer, this is the best move he could make.

However, hes continued to upload videos to his site, all seemingly pre-recorded stunts from his time in Japan.

He needs to Chill, stay dark for a while, at least three-six months and let things blow over,' he adds.

'Spend his time and money with suicide prevention and mental health organizations away from the cameras.' If the expert was advising the star, he'd encourage him to stage his comeback the right way.

'Do your reentry with a one-on-one live interview, a really big name, and show your sincere regret, what you've learned, and how your will turn it all into helping people."' According to the expert, a scandal like this takes three-nine months to blow over.

Schiffer adds: People won't forget, but if he manages things right, it won't be front of mind – like seeing OJ Simpson and thinking murder.' It comes after Logan was pictured for the first time jogging around his neighbourhood in Los Angeles last week – while a security company was pictured attending the vloggers million-dollar mansion.

Overnight YouTube hinted Logan could be shut down , as they continue to look into the controversy.

More: Youtube A statement from the website read: 'We expect more of the creators who build their community on @YouTube, as we're sure you do too.

The channel violated our community guidelines, we acted accordingly, and we are looking at further consequences. Need support? Contact the Samaritans For emotional support you can call the Samaritans 24-hour helpline on 116 123, email jo@samaritans.org, visit a Samaritans branch in person or go to the Samaritans website.

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Dark cloud over James Franco after actress Ally Sheedy's tweets - Duration: 6:10.

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The Dark Side of Personality - Hogan Development Survey (HDS) - Duration: 1:01.

- [Narrator] Here's the problem with resumes

and doing interviews.

They give you the highlight but never the low-lights.

When people get stressed out, their dark side can show

and it affects everyone around them.

The Hogan Development Survey is the only assessment

that measures the dark side of personality.

Using 11 primary characteristics,

the HDS measures strengths that may transform

into weaknesses under pressure.

These are called derailers.

For example, someone enthusiastic and fun

can turn volatile.

Or a diligent person might become a micro-manager.

The Hogan Development Survey identifies potential derailers,

allowing you to make better hiring

and employee development decisions

for much happier and successful teams.

Discover the dark side today.

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[Dark Souls 3] 米狄爾 教學? - Duration: 6:18.

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How to be happy, even in dark uncertainty - Duration: 5:55.

Hi everyone Justine Froelker here and it's Therapy Thursday so 2018 has been

fairly brutal my grandpa passed away Chad's grandma is in the hospital my other

grandpa is not doing well one of my friends lost her young son to the flu

one of my other friend's husband is in the hospital I mean like it just has been

hard and I know I'm not the only one like a lot of uncertainty and darkness

and so I wanted to do a quick Therapy Thursday about how do we choose happy

even in the dark uncertain times and I kind of did a little bit of writing

around this and I came up with this list of 5 things it's not anything really new

but hopefully you'll hear it in a different way today so first off give

yourself permission to feel like we go through our lives just busying ourselves

and saying I don't have time to feel this and so what we do when we do that

is we offload it we cope in ineffective ways and emotion is energy and it has to

go somewhere and so there's so much power in giving yourself permission to

feel it literally in your head saying I give myself permission to feel whatever

we must give ourselves permission number two beyond that we however choose how we

feel that like so there's this piece of like what meaning are you attaching to

whatever is going on because the meaning that you attach to it probably

determines how you feel about it as we're talking about in the Rising Ever

Upward work what's the story you're making up because when we own and claim

the stories that we make up and that we attach to the crap that's happening in

our lives that's when we'll be able to get our

clarity because that's when we realize that most of the stuff happening in our

lives has nothing to do with us and the only

thing that we have control over is the story that we make up about around it we

choose what we do with that story what's the story you're making up and own that

what's the meaning that you're attaching to what is going on because when we

define and claim those things we get to choose our emotions and how we feel them

and what we do with them so that takes us to number three what do you do with

it a feeling is just a feeling it's energy that has to move through it

doesn't have much power until we claim it with a behavior or an action or we

choose to cope with it in a healthy or an unhealthy way we can choose to stuff

it down we can choose to offload it on to somebody else or something else we

can choose not to deal it's got to go somewhere so it doesn't really have a

whole lot of power until you attach to the drama of it as Cassandra says until

you literally put something to it until then it's just a feeling that hopefully

you're asking yourself where it's coming from but then when you attach a behavior

to it that's when it has the most power and so what behavior are you going to

attach to it because again that is in your control number four what are you

gonna choose to believe so beyond steps one through three what

are you going to choose to believe are you gonna choose to believe it's gonna

be okay and as we say if it's not okay it's not over yet are you going to

choose to keep your eyes and your heart open enough to receive the message and

the lesson that you're needing to receive in the hardship and the

difficulty in the shit that's happening right now in the fear and the dark

whatever it might be what is the lesson that you need to receive in it are you

going to choose to believe that this is as shitty as it is for your higher good

because there are no mistakes there's shit and there's dark our power

lies in what we choose to do with it and so ultimately number five it's our

choice are you going to choose to be a victim are you going to choose to wallow

we are not puppets we are not victims we choose what we do with our lives and

this is not to say that we don't honor and validate those parts of ourselves

that are hurt and scared and fearful we must honor those parts again back to

number one permission to feel beyond that though we choose how to use it so

in this time of uncertainty of mine I'm going to rely on my faith I'm going to

rely on my tribe I'm gonna reach out for help I'm going to practice this work of

self-care and naming my feelings and coping with them in an effective way and

talking about them and sharing it with the world because I know I'm not alone

and neither are you make it a great day and I'll see you

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